Thursday, April 11, 2013

Girls Road Trip::Sioux Falls

Last weekend I took an {epic} road trip to the beautiful and desolate hills of South Dakota.
Destination: Sioux Falls, SD
Reason for trip: a friend's wedding 
{weddings are the best reason to travel}
Fellow road-trippers: three dear friends & one dear sister
{Allison isn't in the pictures since she only went partway with us and spent the weekend with a friend}
Other activities along the way: coffee, goodwill, platos closet, target, mexican food, hampton inn, photoshoot, jane austen, food, etc etc etc
It was quite the eventful trip,
given my extraordinary sense of direction.
 (or lack thereof)
prior to the trip, there was some concern from some of my well-meaning family members 
that I might not arrive at my destination. 
as it was, it went uncommonly well and we only got lost/missed our exits about five times.
not bad.
I mean, it could've been worse. 
we could've ended up in idaho. 
(with me driving, a very serious possibility)
The entire trip was somewhat of a hassle to plan, due to unforeseen little problems that kept cropping up.
But finally after dozens upon dozens of emails, details, and "hashing",
 as well as several character building moments for high energy, easily stressed yours truly...
(thanks Hannah for keeping me on track with your calm rationality)
we made it out the door and en route to south dakota!
South Dakota is beautiful. 
the scenery was so western-rolling hills, mountains in the distance, prairie grasses...
we are all avid shoppers and when we found out that our hotel was located right next to a huge mall, we knew that we would have to leave early and take advantage of the shopping!
however...we're also all thrifty-type girls so when a goodwill was found in the area we decided to visit that first. 
On the way to goodwill we kept our eyes peeled for thrift stores. 
someone saw the above store and said "there's a thrift store"! 
someone else noted that it was a "bread" thrift store. 
not sure what that means...used bread?
no, probably outdated bread...but still, they shouldn't put "thrift" on their sign.
its a super distracting word to us "get-the-best-deal-possible" minded people!
and besides, as Hannah would say, "it sounds sketchy". =)
following our goodwill stop, we were much elated to discover a Platos Closet just one mile away!
{for those who don't know-Platos Closet is a trendy fashion consignment store. Their stuff is a little more expensive generally then Goodwill's, but everything is always super up-to-date.
for once we had no time limit (other than our stomachs!) and could shop as long as we wanted!
after two hours we finally left with many treasures and greatly-dimished wallet content. =)
{note: we never made it to the mall =)}
we had dinner at a little mexican place
We arrived at the hotel late friday night. I had booked a room back in mid-March so everything was ready and paid for and all we had to do was get our key. 
Our friend Kelly met up with us at the hotel; she had driven down from MN.
For the weekend in general, we blew all codes of health and splurged rather greatly. 
We all decided that we were going to give our health consciences a break.
Kelly saved the day by bringing some celery. 
So I rotated between whole stalks of celery and petite handfuls of M&M's. 
I know-what a diet.
screen shot of Pride&Prejudice's Elizabeth Bennet & Colonel Fitzwilliam
{we watched the A&E version, which is the best one I think}

A quick mirror shot in the morning, right before leaving for the wedding.

My friend Emily was a beautiful bride and it was such fun to experience her special day w/ her!

Tia, Lilly, Hannah, myself, & Kelly
with the bride...
{we all knew Emily from Bright Lights conference trips-all of us were/are staff with BL and got to know each other quite well on trips to various states for conferences}
We were planning to do a photoshoot following the wedding.
But the weather was uncooperative 
{extremely windy and c-o-l-d}
so we headed home instead.
after several hours of driving, we came to a quaint little town somewhere in iowa and someone suggested stopping and trying for some pictures.
lo and behold the wind was mostly gone and it was a very comfortable temp for posing. =)
as you can see, we chose to
"forgo conventionality"
and opted for the "highly individual and original" looks instead. =)
an attempt at demure expressions, in which you can see that three of us failed rather miserably. 
Once we finally got our act together and stopped laughing....
we could really pull off the pensive/meditative mood idea.
I will never forget the first time I met Tia because my mom and a family friend both had just met her and they came to me and said "we met this girl that looks so much like you and just reminds us of you!" =)
Ever since we've heard that we look alike and we even get mistaken for each other at bright lights conferences!

the 14 hours we spent in the car were anything but dull, let me tell you! In those fourteen hours we covered about every topic out there, dwelling slightly longer on certain ones. =)
We sang...ate....stopped at both classy & shady gas stations (almost got a proposal at the one) lost...ate some more....and talked nonstop.
I'll never forget the song that took us an hour to listen to because we somehow got started talking on music standards and we kept turning off the song to discuss another thought! It was quite something...loved it though. I love how true friends are those that are like "iron sharpening iron"-the ones that aren't scared to tell you if they disagree with you.
the ones that will encourage you in sticking to what you believe.
the ones that will ask what God's been doing in your life.
the ones that will not just talk but they will also listen.
these three women are all of that and I'm so blessed to know them.
so all that the ladies who traipsed with me to the western hills of South Dakota.

 romantic and dreamy Lilly

creative & candid Hannah
{candid because she believes just like me in "say it the way it is!" =)}

genuine and graceful Tia

lovely times, lovely memories.
wonderful and lovely without even mentioning the 10-minute "extreme stress bubble" on the way from JoAnn Fabrics to the wedding location.
or the 8+ speeding tickets yours truly should have gotten but didn't.
{just being honest here}
or the thrill and peace that we felt when we actually arrived 15 minutes early in spite of the above details.
or all the other random things that we don't write about because they aren't exactly "blog approved". =)
now we're trying to conceive a plan to get someone else married so we can do it again! =)
{visit Hannahs Blog for her story of the trip}
{photo credits-professional photos by Hannah & I; phone photos by everyone}


  1. LOL it looks like yous had a lot of fun.....

  2. Looks like SO much fun. They have such a neat story. I was able be a flower girl (back in 07) at one of Benjamin Mitton's cousins wedding, he was a groomsman at it. (and I've followed their family's blog since then. ;)) They have such a huge extensive family!! So neat. (coming from a girl who literally has two first cousins.) it's such a small world!

    haaaaa. and an almost proposal at a gas station. too funny, but not really.

  3. Take it from an English gal, you mean the BBC pride and prejudice :P there aren't many things the British are patriotic about, but the BBC is one of them! (And Colin Firth. Of course.)

  4. oh yes-you are right. I was thinking A&E because that's what's on the dvd front. But upon further investigation...I see BBC listed in the credits. How could I not have known that? =)
    Colin Firth. =) Yes-incredible actor.

  5. I have to agree that the pride and Prejudice is the best!!

  6. Looks like you all had a great time!
    Hmmm...would love to hear the proposal story:)


  7. Looks like you had tons of fun Chels! That girl really looks like you!

  8. Aw, glad you had a marvelous time!
    Really weird but, doesn't Lilly look like Elizabeth Botkin in the 18th pic? At least at first glance she does.
    Maybe not anymore...
    By all means match someone else up! =D
    Can't wait till I see you!
    Love you, girlie!

    1. yes Kaylee...I can see what you mean! I think its the raised eyebrow/demure expression..totally an elizabeth botkin expression. =)
      beings as your on "my team" in this matchmaking you have any ideas?? =)

  9. Ah! Love this post Chels! You're so good at writing..that trip was one of the best ever despite all the very interesting roadblocks and things to figure out..LOL. haha..and its funny how we wrote many of the same things in each of our posts. :) overall so many memories and character building experiences, right?! And the extreme stress bubble..YEAH. Next wedding we go to, we'll get there an hour ahead of time. ;)

    1. yes. =) or even two hours, just to be safe. =) love those times....

  10. I loved hearing about your road trip and seeing these beautiful pictures. Sounds like SUCH a fun, memorable time!! =) Love and miss you all! So thankful for each of you! And you all are SO gorgeous, inside and out. :) Blessings, Chels!! <3

  11. This post really made me smile because I was just in Sioux Falls this PAST weekend for a wedding! Except our trip was post the ice storm they had on Wednesday/Thursday so our drive there and time in SD was a little more....white!!


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